The article discusses the problems with using battle-related language, such as 'fighting' or 'battling' cancer, to describe the experience of having the disease. Such language can lead to feelings of guilt or inadequacy in patients who do not survive, as it implies that outcomes are connected to personal effort or bravery. The author suggests that cancer is a biological process rather than an adversary to be defeated, and encourages using language that is more compassionate and accurate. Emphasizing supportive and honest conversations can help patients feel less pressure and more understood during their illness.